SAMPLES OF CLIPART FOR ASIAN WEDDINGS:
Wedding clipart and graphics can be very useful when planning your
wedding. You should decide on designs early on so that they can match item
thoughout. For example, if you have daisies on your invitations, it's nice
to have them on the wedding program and perhaps printed on the glassware
also.
More great ideas for clipart found here:
Wedding
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HONG KONG WEDDINGS:
People in Hong Kong emphasize wedding customs and traditions. It usually
takes more time in Hong Kong than in United States to prepare a wedding.
Some weddings in United States might be considered casual... whereas a
wedding in Hong Kong would almost always be a complex affair, especially the
ceremony and the banquet. The ceremony is usually a combination of the
western and eastern style. The eastern style ceremony includes traditional
Chinese elements and is much more complex than the western style. So the
couples usually start to prepare their wedding 1-2 years ahead of time.
CHINESE WEDDINGS:
Chinese emphasize customs and traditions. It is important for them to marry
on an auspicious day and, if possible, at an auspicious hour. When a couple
decides to get married, both sides of the family will meet together. First,
they will decide on the amount of money that the groom should pay for the
bride's wedding preparation. Then they will pick the wedding day by looking
through the Chinese lunar calendar and the astrological charts, which shows
the days that are suitable for the wedding and will bring them luck. In
contrast to Chinese, Americans are not superstitions when it comes to choose
the wedding date. They will emphasize on practicality throughout the wedding
preparation. The bride's family usually pays for the whole wedding. In
addition, Chinese will prepare both western and eastern style wedding gowns.
The bride usually wears the eastern style-wedding gown at the wedding
banquet. It is a robe of red brocade or satin richly embroidered in gold
thread and sequins. American, on the other hand, will choose only one kind
of wedding gown.
Chinese wedding and American wedding also differ in ceremony. Besides the
church ceremony, the traditional tea ceremony is also important to the
Chinese. This tradition is often observed after the church ceremony in the
main sitting room at the home of the groom's parents. The bride would
"kowtow" to the groom's parents the groom greets the bride's parents. The
bride then serves tea to the groom's father and mother. In return, the
groom's parents give her a valuable gift, such as a piece of jewelry. It is
a symbol of acceptance into the family. Then the bride will pour tea and bow
to the groom's siblings, starting with the eldest brother and his spouse.
One simple way for an American couple to get married is to go to Las Vegas,
spend $25 and have a "simple marriage". This process takes less than 2
hours. In contrast to Chinese, Americans have the simple church ceremony.
The Chinese usually regard the wedding banquet as the important part of
the wedding besides the church and tea ceremony. Both sides of the family
will be pleased to see more guests to come and more tables to serve the
guest. Unlike Americans, they will never serve buffet or refreshment as the
wedding banquet. Americans will usually held the banquet at large hotels. On
the other hand, the Chinese will usually held the banquet at a large Chinese
restaurant. Every meal that is going to serve the guest will be named a
special lucky name. Before the banquet start, the guests will come early to
the restaurant and play "Mazhong" with other guests. The bride might change
into the traditional Chinese wedding outfit or "kwa" when receiving guests.
The guest will play jokes on both bride and groom. For instance, they will
ask the groom to identify the bride by touching the girls hands without
looking at their face. Unlike Chinese, American are more respectful to the
wedding. The guests would not play "Mazhong" or any other gambling games at
the wedding banquet. They will bless both the bride and the groom and will
not play jokes on them.
JAPANESE WEDDINGS
Japanese weddings are very beautiful and spiritual occasions which
encompass aspects of the Far East that appeal to Westerners. Even though old
traditions are preserved in Japan to a much larger extent than in many
Western countries, Japanese are very fascinated and influenced by Western
style. Nowadays, many wedding ceremonies are carried out only partially in
the traditional way. The traditional part of a wedding is celebrated in
Shinto-style while other parts could contain Christian elements, even if the
couple is not Christian.
In Japan, spring and fall are wedding seasons. Wedding traditions tend to
vary according to the region, family traditions and the class systems.
Mi-Ai:
Until the turn of the century, the "Mi-Ai" interview of a man and woman was
more of a formality than an opportunity to know each other with a view to
marriage. When "Mi-Ai" was mere formality, a bridegroom-to-be might be
invited to the home of a bride-to-be and, if he were favorably impressed, he
would leave behind a fan to indicate his acceptance. The bride-to-be had
little chance of expressing her views on the subject.
When practiced today, it is arranged by a go-between to provide the
prospective bridegroom and bride an initial opportunity to know each other
personally.
A theater, hotel or restaurant may well be used for "Mi-Ai" where the
proposed couple and their families meet. The "Mi-Ai" interview is no longer
considered to force any compulsory consequence upon either of the parties
concerned. It is a practice for parents, go-betweens and friends with a
particular view to unite, if desired, a young man and woman, thought out to
be ideal partners in marriage. Even when successfully conducted, the man and
woman concerned are usually given months to get to know each other and
possibly to learn to love each other.
Yui-no:
"Yui-no" is a derived form of "Ii-ire" meaning "to apply". It is said also
to mean for families to be united in marriage to dine and drink together. In
any case it is an important function in betrothal in Japan. At "Yui-no"
gifts are exchanged between the bridegroom-to-be and bride-to-be. The main
item to be presented to the bride-to-be is an "Obi", representing female
virtue. A "Hakama" skirt is returned to the bridegroom-to-be, expressing
fidelity. The "Yui-no" gifts include as many as nine items of happiness and
fortune, if formally prepared, in addition to the "Obi" and "Hakama".
"Naga-Noshi" is prepared from abalones. It used to be an important and
costly item in the old barter trade. It is to express the sincere wishes of
a sender, and is widely used in making gifts in Japan.
"Mokuroku" is the list of gifts delivered. Money is exchanged as a
ceremonial gift. "Katsuo-bushi" is dried bonito, used in making soup stock
and valued highly as preserved food. "Surume" is dried cuttlefish. Both
"Surume" and "Katsuo-bushi" are presented to indicate "quality" to last.
"Konbu" tangles are included for their strong power of breeding, wishing for
happy and healthy generations to follow in the family. "Shiraga" is another
name for "Asa", or hemp. Strong fibers are exchanged to signify ties and
cooperation in the married life. "Shiraga" phonetically means white hair,
expressing wishes for long life together to the newly married. "Suehiro" is
a fan, always a symbol of happiness, as it expands to the end, suggesting a
better and bigger future. "Yanagi-daru" is a wine cask. It may be replaced
by cash, as designated for the purpose of purchasing "Sake" wine. "Sake"
casks are usually made of "Sugi" cryptomeria but such as used in "Yui-no" is
of willow trees with tender leaves. It is meant to pledge obedience and
gentleness in the married life. All these "Yui-no" gifts are accompanied by
a list of family members, as they are exchanged between the two families
through the go-between on a "lucky" day of the almanac.6
JAPANESE WEDDING CEREMONIES:
In Japan, wedding traditions tend to vary according to the region, family
traditions and the class systems. Four types of wedding ceremonies dominate:
Shinto (the native Japanese religion), Buddhist, Christian and
non-religious. The religious aspects often dictate the 'style' of the
ceremony, and therefore, they are often known as Shinto-style or
Christian-style weddings, and do not necessarily reflect the beliefs of the
couple.2
Shinto-Style Wedding Ceremony:
The Shinto-style ceremony is very traditional and incorporates the best of
ancient Japanese traditions. The wedding includes only the immediate
families, the "Nakoudo" (go-between) and the priest. The Shinto-style
wedding is performed before a Shinto sanctuary set up for the occasion,
unless the wedding takes place in a Shinto shrine. It is presided over by a
Shinto priest who first holds the purification service of all present.
Go-betweens are often selected more for ceremonial purposes from among
elderly couples known and close to either or both of the families to be
united in marriage. The bride wears a white "Kimono" with an elaborate
headdress while the bridegroom wears a black "Kimono" and jacket with a
striped "Hakama" (skirt-like pants).
After a ritual by the priest, reporting to elders on the marriage and
requesting their lasting favors on the newlyweds, it is now customary for
the bridegroom to read an oath to keep faithful and obedient to each other
in married life. The oath may be given by the go-between in behalf of the
new couple. The "San-San Kudo", or ceremony, of the Three-Times-Three
Exchange of nuptial cups is then performed by the bridegroom and bride. The
exchange of wedding rings is also a popular practice today. The bridegroom
and bride proceed to the sanctuary to offer twigs of the "Sakaki" sacred
tree in worship to gods to end the main part of the wedding ceremony. Drinks
of "Sake" are then exchanged between members and close relatives of both
families to signify their union through the wedding. The Shinto-style
wedding is accompanied by traditional music and attended by "Miko", maidens
in red and white dresses, who serve "Sake".
It is a short service, simple in procedure but full of solemn atmospheres.
Many hotels and restaurants are equipped with a special room for wedding
ceremonies.
Christian-style Wedding Ceremony:
The Christian-style wedding is usually a contradiction in terms. It is
generally chosen because the image appeals to the couple rather than due to
any spiritual belief. The ceremonies are normally based on Protestant
services, and are hold in dedicated wedding facilities that are designed
like churches but are not active parishes. The actual denomination of the
priest is irrelevant to the proceedings.
Buddhist-style Wedding Ceremony:
Buddhist weddings are performed in a temple. Buddhist nuptials, as performed
at the Honganji Temple, includes a prayer, the presentation of Buddhist
rosaries, an address by the priest, incense burning, drinks of oath and a
Buddhist worship by clasping hands. A Buddhist temple used to be a place for
funerals, as far as such events in life as birth, marriage and death were
concerned. It is still to be seen how far the Buddhist wedding may go with
millions of otherwise Buddhist followers found in the country.6
JAPANESE WEDDING RECEPTIONS:
The scale and style of wedding receptions in Japan vary from one end to
another, depending on budgets and other factors involved.
The usual procedures in wedding receptions is to have the go-between
introduce the bridegroom, bride and their family backgrounds. Sometimes such
introductions are made to cover parents of the newlyweds more in length than
the principal figures of the occasion.
Red and white is a happy color combination in Japan, as abundantly used
in a wedding reception. The soup may have ingredients in such color scheme
and ice cream may be served in the same color combination.
A Japanese wedding reception is a colorful affair, particularly with
young friends of the bride attending in beautiful "Kimono". Married ladies
in black formal dresses have multicolor designs on the "Kimono" skirts to be
no less attractive than young maidens. It is really a show for the newlyweds
to remember for many years.
Merchandise is never given to Japanese couples as a wedding gift. Instead
of a gift, "Goshugi" (money) should be handed to the couple in an envelope,
decorated with writing and gold cord tied in a specific knot, at the
reception. If "Goshugi" has been already sent to the couple, the guests can
just register their names. This is not the common way, however. The amount
of "Goshugi" given to the couple depends on the relationship between the
giver and the couple. Odd numbers are considered lucky, because they cannot
be easily divided by two, something which is considered inappropriate for
marriage. Guests receive a gift as they leave, usually something fairly
expensive. Following the formal reception, an informal party is held at a
restaurant, giving the couple an opportunity to relax and share their
celebration with close friends.
Japanese wedding photos and links:
http://www.iipix.com/japan/wedding/
http://www.geocities.com/Tokyo/2888/celebration-e.html
